Am I Neglected or taken for Granted?

Last week I and Gaurav went to Kolkota just to visit Belur math. I called Jogya from there just for timepass. During conversation the topic of Siddharth's engagement was discussed. I was totally unaware of this thing. At that moment I felt I was totally neglected by my friend not a single word was uttered by him during my stay at Pune. And more over that even Aakash and Akhilesh were aware of this fact but not me. I wasn't in a state to react to the news. Just because of my mind was full of anger and igoism. The work of making me more and more angry was being done side by side by Gaurav in form of laughing and tonting me. I just show no response to that but afterwords I just thought impartially. It was a very funny process of thinking. Instead of From -ve to +ve it was from +ve to -ve it started with ' may be Sid must have thought that the I am aware of this thing as Everybody is knowing this. ---> No No How can he take me for granted As I am supposed to be his friend He must tell me atleast once ---> What is there to tell anybody if someone is getting engaged ---> may be I am not his close friend to him he should talk personally may be I am one of the population for him ---> I have to be more friendly in nature to be in the close group of friend whom i consider as my close group.

well this matter or issue is over for me but it is important to give a look to the thinking process as it should be in +ve direction and not in negative one especially in case of shocking or surprising event occur in the life.
Sid's engagement was surprise for me not the event but the way it was conveyed was surprising to me I congratulate him through this post. As he may think I am as late as tubelight