samvedanshil mann........ek majaaak

today i was listening to my pretty long winamp playlist, first time serially(without shuffling). I as it is serially arranged salil kulkarni and sandeep khare duo's songs were in line. especially i am going to tell that it is first time how "sanvedanshil" my mind is

as the first track played  "He Bhalate awaghad asate". this is very touchy song according to most of my friends, but it is funny song according to me ..........very funny. it is well orated song but i take it lightly. खरे तर हे गाणे मी एका मित्राला चिडवण्यासाठी वापरतो......

but then the song was played which almost made me cry (.................exaggerating.......................)

but yes it took out some of the very expensive TEARS from me. the song was "Nasates ghari tu jenvha" 

after my foreward i will move straight analysis part of the whole event. (as an Industrial Engineer move to roooooooooooooooooooot cause) the feelings what came to my mind while listening "Bhalate" and listening "Nasates" there was distinct state of my mind. In fact while analyzing this psychology it is very much hectic job. but i am going to do it

the first & last thing i found the role of mine is different not only differnt but distinct. 

how this role play is affecting your Sanvedanshilataa is very funny and important to know

the first song I never experianced such situation never in my life (nor expecting tooo) so I play the role of viewer of the scene created by the lyricist and the role of hero is played by my friend.

(the reason why i laugh is I had put efforts to take him out from the situation but he is not in understanding condition. let him finish this scene and come to me then we have great things to do together) So it is very simple situation for me.

while listening to second track I was experiance a couple, Infact my parents in that situation. and i felt very sad yes this could happen in my life. it was very touchy. this may happen to me also to my friend also. but the situation is not as first as the feelings expressed were due to long "SAHAWAAS" not of the few days "HASSI-MAJJAK". the sahawas can make so much impact. the one mate which we choose for the whole life (both ways) the responsibility also the shareing of feeling i.e. emotional dependance. 

I find india has very well established "VIVAH SANSTHAA" 

(nehamiche wakya repeat..) farach bharakatat aahe

man sanvedanshil honyasaathi apalyaala "Role play" karayalaa have aahe. sanvedanshil asane ha Netyachaa ek mahatwapoorna goon aahe. apalya saharyaache aani aplya followers che ma janoon ghene he mahatwaache aahe. pan doosri anu tyahoon mahatwaachi gosht mhanaje tya sahakaryala bhawanik ubhari dene. so for me it was the first step I am sanvedanshil.

ajoon khoop pragati karayachi aahe pan ho "Meri Raah to sahi hein"

  

IIT Kharagpur-"the unfortunate day"

It was stormy day in my IIT life. A storm that took with it entire Administration organisation. It was very odd day as the unfortunate incident occur in IIT Kharagpur, A third year B. Tech boy died due to negligence of hospital administration. The students of IIT then in the mood of annoyance gheraao the Director house and they wait there for director's response. the director didn't respond till half an hour so the angry student just went impatient and then started to break the glasses of house and his car.AND on top of it the electronic media covered this so called story (in their words) mentioning the violent attitude if student of esteem institute. After that he resigned and call the open house i.e. similar to parliament meeting to discuss what shold be done to avoid such problems or such calamity henceforth. the TOAT(Tagore Open Air Theater) was houseful and session started with the 1 min silense. the registrar put forth the ideas to improve the hospital. then student asked various queries and gave suggestions. one of such sudent pointed out that our DD(Deputy Director) is the chairman of the hospital so everybody started demanding the resignation. the next person in the line of fire was DOSA(Dean of Student Affairs), student also demand the resignation. The DD assured that this will be investigated with the Enquiry ("no Inquiry") commission and also promised that the press note will be issued about the misinterpretation of media regarding the students behaviour.

I couldn't understand the mentality of the Indians in fact I must do it, but the resignation is not the solution to each and everything. but whatever we observe from that only we absorb. The national politics revolves around such demands of resignations. and then if the person resigns we feel victorious as if the death of student was the tool to remove the administration. but what about that student, his family they must have dreamed the best for him. he will graduate from IIT, secure a job, make the whole family happier. but alas the dream is the dream again in fact the dream that will never be true.
for one moment I stood in his role, my ambitions, my career, my duties for parents........
what is there now only memories of mine now in the hearts of my friend, my family....
then I changed the role what will be response if he was my friend not only the friend but the best friend. the first thought came - the friend is gone whom will i share my feelings? who will be with me all the time? who will make me world's happiest man
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and
who will make me the world's SADDEST man by leaving me alone in this world.
then the thought of indian spirituality came to my mind "Aatmaa to amar hein" then why r u crying.
"are tuch hotas na to jyaane apaghataachya weli dhairyaane ghetale!"
are ho pan tenvha sudhdaa mitra hotech mi mazyabarobar!

so it is simpler for one to digest the death of family member than that of the Friend.


faarach bharakattoy na mi?
aso
je zale tyaat mazyadrushtine
"The day is one who decides the fortune, not a man nor the prewritten destiny. The only thing in human hands is :On that DAY how You stand against the threats or how you make the most of it as an opprtunity"
for our director, DD, DOSA it was the unfortunate
and the student was not unfortunate, but the situation in which he was trapped was the life taking away. I pray god "tyaachya atmyaas shanti laabho"